Happy Birthday, Chica Dulce

by Fat Daddy, Esq. on May 17, 2013

Birthday

The Mexican restaurant in town, like most small town Mexican restaurants I’ve been to, makes it a practice to, upon learning of a diner’s birthday, slap a sombrero on the patron’s head, sing them a tune in Spanish and present them with sopapillas. At our joint they like to smear whipped cream in the face of the birthday girl/boy/woman/man and then take their picture for the wall of fame (shame?). Thing 2 has requested this treatment for her last several birthdays and we have obliged.

Thing 2 is now six years old and she is such a fun little girl. She is a hard-headed fashionista. She is a tender-hearted caretaker. She is way too clever for her own good and she knows just enough curse words to laugh when she hears me say one but has the good sense to not unleash many of her own. I think she only knows one of George Carlin’s Infamous Seven.

Hot Momma fears that Thing 2 will be our hard-partying teenage rebel. She is the most social of social butterflies. But while at home we see a definite disrespect for authority, her teacher had glowing reports of her exemplary behavior. So there may be hope yet.

We always try to give each of our children equal love and attention and try to encourage whatever interests they may have. As the kids get older this gets more difficult. This year Thing 2 played soccer. She had team pictures one evening and it was my job to get her there. Hot Momma was at her dance studio with Thing 1. Thing 3 was at home with our nanny, Sissy K. Time slipped away and by the time I realized what had happened I got Thing 2 to the field just in time for her to get her picture taken, but too late to be in the team picture since most of the team members had left after waiting around for half an hour. When we got home, she got out of my car and with tears welling up said, “now when I look at my team’s picture I won’t be in it.” I felt like the worst parent in the world, worried I had ruined her life. But those pictures came in the other day and she really hasn’t mentioned it so maybe life will go on.

From the looks of the smile under the whipped cream, at least today is a pretty sweet day.

Happy Birthday, Sweet Girl!

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TECHSHOW 2013

by Fat Daddy, Esq. on April 4, 2013

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I’m here. Hot Momma is at home with Things 1-3. I rarely travel alone. I am a homebody. I like my bed. I don’t like cramming my fat ass in a tiny airplane seat. But walking through the airport I began thinking about my previous trips to this event and began to get excited.

I attended LexThink.1 last night and was further inspired. The point of attending this event is not just to learn about the latest software and gadgets. Once I become immersed in the programming and talking with other lawyers and consultants it sparks so many ideas for improving our practice. Many of the ideas have very little to do with technology. Rather, technology is simply the platform from which to learn about innovation and proficiency in client service and practice management.

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The Case for Electronic Case Files

by Fat Daddy, Esq. on January 2, 2013

Wrecked

This is the scene after an associate attorney was rear ended by a tractor-trailer on a snowy turnpike. After his spinning car came to rest, he walked away. But his files were not so fortunate. See that piece of cardboard sticking out from where his trunk once was? That was a banker box full of paperwork for several cases he was working on. The papers that were found were damaged from the wet snow and the impact of the accident.

While this was certainly a traumatic experience for the attorney, the loss of the box of paper did not negatively impact our ability to serve our clients. The reason for this is our office’s practice of scanning all incoming documents and saving an electronic file so that the paper file becomes a convenience rather than a necessity.

OfficeFire

Fast forward a few months and a much more catastrophic event took place. One night I received a phone call telling me there was smoke coming from the building where my office was located. I was still several hours away and felt rather helpless. No worries, we have everything backed up, right? Sort of. Yes, I had set up a backup routine and we had a backup of our system from earlier in the day … sitting right next to our server on an external hard drive. We had other external hard drive backups but they were not current. I had researched online backup and even spoken with a representative but had not yet set up an online backup plan.

Once I learned of the fire, I got on my iPad and remotely connected to our server. I started the slow process of frantically copying files to any offsite location I could. Dropbox, Google Drive, email; I was trying it all. I got a sick feeling when I lost my server connection. I knew it meant that the server had succumbed to the fire and, while I had managed to copy all of our Quickbooks and Timeslips databases, we did not have nearly enough of our files. I am the unofficial IT guy at our small firm so all of the blame for the file loss would fall on me, and rightly so. I started considering locations in Mexico where I might escape rather than try to rebuild our practice.

Once I arrived on site, I was delighted to learn that the firemen entered our office and saved our server before the fire jumped over to our side of the building. I immediately took the server home and connected it. All of the files were there!

The aftermath of the fire has been difficult. We did lose many old files that were not part of our scanning plan. We had to relocate to a temporary space and I had to purchase replacement computers and set up another network. But the current client files and practice documents created within at least the past five years are all still there. If we wanted to recreate a paper file, we just had to click the print button on the PDF files. I have taken the fire as an opportunity to shift to a more paperless approach. I take files to court on my iPad and view documents on my dual monitors at my office. We have a new server and we have a combination backup plan where we use external hard drives but also have an account with an online backup service.

Beach

On a much more pleasant note, I went on vacation with my lovely wife, Hot Momma, last summer. I tried to make it a true vacation and not spend a lot of time working. I did a pretty good job for the most part, lying on the beach or by the pool and sipping fruity drinks. When the need arose to check in with the office and work on a file, I was able to remotely connect to my office computer with my iPad and work just like I was sitting in my comfy office chair.

These experiences would have been dramatically different if we did not have an electronic file plan in place. That associate would have lost documents that would have been expensive and difficult, if not impossible, to replace. Our office fire would have been much more debilitating. And most importantly to me, my ability to connect from the beach, or my living room, means that I am no longer location dependent. This means I can spend time with my family doing fun things but I retain the ability to be productive when needed.

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Fun With Pleadings

September 7, 2012

An attorney from Oklahoma alerted me to a recent paper scuffle that took place in the District Court in and for Tulsa County. Apparently a civil defense attorney took issue with the plaintiff’s attorney’s alleged habit of delay in mailing pleadings and filed with the court a “Notice of Failure to Timely Deliver Filed Pleadings” [...]

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Fat Daddy’s Submarine Test, Date TBD

August 16, 2012

John Mayer’s new album, Born and Raised, contains a song that has already become one of my all-time favorite songs. Walt Grace’s Submarine Test, January 1967 tells the tale of a man who wants to escape to a new world and after much study and tinkering finds himself alone in the ocean in a “homemade, [...]

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Confessions of an Addict

June 19, 2012

I have a confession, I’m an addict. It started early on in life but I only recently began to understand the impact of my condition. I don’t remember the first time I “used” but I know by college I was a full-fledged junkie. You might wonder how I kept this from my parents. The truth [...]

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How to Build the Ultimate Treadmill Desk

January 31, 2012

Many people desire a fit and healthy body. It is easy to read through fitness magazines and websites and dream of a beach-ready figure. The demands of work and family often crowd out the hard part, finding time to actually exercise.  It is even worse if you have a desk job where you tend to [...]

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Mobile Timeslips on the iPad with iSlips

December 22, 2011

As I have discussed here before, it can be a pain keeping track of your billing in six minute increments. It is even more of a chore to keep track of time when you are on the go. Trying to go back and recreate a day or a week out of the office can be [...]

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Cornbread Dressing

November 20, 2011

Dressing? Stuffing? Around my house we call it dressing because it doesn’t get stuffed into anything. This recipe is my grandmother’s and is one of my all-time favorite foods from my youth. When I was growing up she would make this every Thanksgiving and sometimes for other gatherings as well. Before she passed away I [...]

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Why Our Society Sucks

November 15, 2011

Hot Momma loves Pinterest. I am not going to discuss the relative positives and negatives of the site at this time. But one positive I have noticed is she can “pin” a recipe and I can login to see what interests her when I am making plans for dinner. Recently she pinned, and I made, [...]

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10 Years

September 1, 2011

Hot Momma and I recently celebrated our ten year wedding anniversary and I have been reflecting a lot on where we have been, where we are, and where we are going to be in the future. This is my favorite picture from that day. The wedding was in July which usually spells oppressive heat but [...]

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